Do not stay in the 20-year-old dreams
- Auteur:Thinkxing
- Source:FlintStone
- Relâchez le:2015-06-17
A friend shared a little story: a pair of brothers, who lives in the 80th floor, one day travel back, encountered building power outages, he decided to climb the stairs. When the brothers were carrying luggage to climb 20 floors, brother proposed to his bag down, waiting for the elevator and then take calls. After that, they continue to climb. When the 40-story, two really tired, began to blame each other, accusing each other pay attention outage announcement, climbed all the way to the 80th floor, but found that the key was to stay in the 20th floor of the bag.
Some people say that this story is to take care of life: 20 years ago, people living below the expectations, but full of dreams bear pressure; after 20 years, away from the pressure, began to unload the burden of chasing dreams; to 40 years, found that youth is past, I can not help but regret and repent, spent in regret and blame; and to the end of their lives, then remembered himself seems to have something unfinished. It turned out that dreams are left in the 20-year-old.
I close my eyes recall his dream: to win medals at the International Olympiad of Students, admitted to the ideal of the university, as a university teacher, traveling around the world to volunteer in poor areas, to shoot a documentary ...... wonderful! He opened his eyes, those beautiful dreams originally only in the memories. Life is like climbing stairs, and yet different from the stairs, wrapped in 20 layers'll go left to find, you can dream lost but gone.
In the end what we will have persistent pursuit of the beauty of their dreams are forgotten? Let's pull back the lens 20 years of youth. At the time we might just out of school, or just to find a job, start away from nagging parents, no longer care about the desired under pressure, eager to traveling light. But the dream, but slowly be forgotten, abandoned. Front row, sometimes may think the dream has been dropped, perhaps moving over to regain the idea. But the pressure of real life upheavals, lack of capacity and we are still not mature enough, soon abandoned the idea of picking up the dream. Marriage, children, house, car, pay, promotion ...... dreams come true? Not its location! Every day we are very busy, not even have time to stop and think why would start, let alone forgotten dreams.
Fast forward to the 40-year-old, this time fully integrated into real life we rarely more self longitudinal dream come true, but more interested in horizontal comparison, more than anyone else in the material richer, more successful career. Dissatisfied with the status quo, into regret and complain, only that less of their own reflection. Too much pressure, involuntarily, life is short, can be used as an excuse for stranded dream, but few people think, initially discarded own dreams. Complacent people often forget there is a dream waiting to be implemented in a comfortable and cozy in. Until the twilight of life, many people think of a young man's dream, but has grown old, beyond their grasp.
Why dream can only stay in the memory? After reading the story, the problem linger, but has not found the answer. Until read Mo Yan wrote a story. In the story he tells, a wife just died the students, the students in the order relics, found a silk scarf, that is when they go to New York City, in a designer shop to buy. His wife has been reluctant to use, she wanted to wait for a special occasion before use. In talking about this, he stopped, and after a while he said:. "Never again left to the good stuff only with a special day, every day you're alive is a special day"
"Living every day is a special day," how thrilling! With these words to think about the dream, you can not put the life of every day dedicated to their dreams? If you do not want to sigh Chi did not pay at the time of looking back, the dream is not round, please do not take the dream to stay in the 20-year-old youth memories.
Some people say that this story is to take care of life: 20 years ago, people living below the expectations, but full of dreams bear pressure; after 20 years, away from the pressure, began to unload the burden of chasing dreams; to 40 years, found that youth is past, I can not help but regret and repent, spent in regret and blame; and to the end of their lives, then remembered himself seems to have something unfinished. It turned out that dreams are left in the 20-year-old.
I close my eyes recall his dream: to win medals at the International Olympiad of Students, admitted to the ideal of the university, as a university teacher, traveling around the world to volunteer in poor areas, to shoot a documentary ...... wonderful! He opened his eyes, those beautiful dreams originally only in the memories. Life is like climbing stairs, and yet different from the stairs, wrapped in 20 layers'll go left to find, you can dream lost but gone.
In the end what we will have persistent pursuit of the beauty of their dreams are forgotten? Let's pull back the lens 20 years of youth. At the time we might just out of school, or just to find a job, start away from nagging parents, no longer care about the desired under pressure, eager to traveling light. But the dream, but slowly be forgotten, abandoned. Front row, sometimes may think the dream has been dropped, perhaps moving over to regain the idea. But the pressure of real life upheavals, lack of capacity and we are still not mature enough, soon abandoned the idea of picking up the dream. Marriage, children, house, car, pay, promotion ...... dreams come true? Not its location! Every day we are very busy, not even have time to stop and think why would start, let alone forgotten dreams.
Fast forward to the 40-year-old, this time fully integrated into real life we rarely more self longitudinal dream come true, but more interested in horizontal comparison, more than anyone else in the material richer, more successful career. Dissatisfied with the status quo, into regret and complain, only that less of their own reflection. Too much pressure, involuntarily, life is short, can be used as an excuse for stranded dream, but few people think, initially discarded own dreams. Complacent people often forget there is a dream waiting to be implemented in a comfortable and cozy in. Until the twilight of life, many people think of a young man's dream, but has grown old, beyond their grasp.
Why dream can only stay in the memory? After reading the story, the problem linger, but has not found the answer. Until read Mo Yan wrote a story. In the story he tells, a wife just died the students, the students in the order relics, found a silk scarf, that is when they go to New York City, in a designer shop to buy. His wife has been reluctant to use, she wanted to wait for a special occasion before use. In talking about this, he stopped, and after a while he said:. "Never again left to the good stuff only with a special day, every day you're alive is a special day"
"Living every day is a special day," how thrilling! With these words to think about the dream, you can not put the life of every day dedicated to their dreams? If you do not want to sigh Chi did not pay at the time of looking back, the dream is not round, please do not take the dream to stay in the 20-year-old youth memories.
